Qin Xue's thoughts are very well-founded, but doing so also has a downside: a woman like this, when a man looks at her for too long, can cause visual fatigue.
And gradually, the feelings might face a crisis, so Qin Xue doesn't want to be a housewife who relies on a man to live; she wants to be a woman who excels in both life and career, because confident women are the most beautiful and attractive.
At times like this, men are not afraid of women becoming haggard, but rather fear that suitors may come to compete with them.
So, the best way for a woman is not to give up her career because of marriage, nor compromise her ideals and abandon her goals because of children; otherwise, the result waiting for you is definitely not what you want.
Why is that the case? Because you originally had a job, you were economically independent. You could spend as much as you wanted; no one could control you; there was no way to control you.
