Namaskar doston!
Madhya Pradesh ke ek chhote se Shahar Jabalpur ka ek Chhota Sa aur pyara Sa gaon jiska Naam Hai mandala vahan per rahti Thi ek ladki jiska Naam tha Shital.
Bachpan Se Hi usne bahut sari sangharshon ka Samna Kiya Hai uske pita ek chhoti Si nariyal ki dukaan mein baithte the aur unki Mata ek grahni Thi To uske do Bhai bahan the
Uske sangharshon ke bare mein agar main baat Karun to usne chhoti Si umra mein Hi bahut sare aise pal dekhe Jo shayad hi ek 5-10 sal ki ladki vah dekh sakti Thi ya vah UN chijon se lad sakti Thi to main baat kar rahi hun ek aise samay ki jab vah Apne School hi Dinon mein Thi aur schooli Dinon mein Thi aur school se ghar kam se kam uska 10 kilometer dur tha vah akele jaati thi aur akele hi School Se wapas bhi a rahi thi jab 8th class mein Thi To uske mohalle mein Rahane wale ek ladke dwara use bahut jyada pareshan Kiya jata tha vah ladka uske aage piche ghumta tha School jaate time use bahut pareshan Karta tha use Apne number deta tha jabardasti aur jabardasti uske raste mein aata tha samne aata tha vah ladka usse Umar mein bahut bar tha bada tha aur ek 8th class ki ladki ke dimag mein itna samajh nahin hota hai ki vah samajh paye ki use ladke ke man mein kya chal raha hai kya nahin chal raha hai aur uske Jo parents hote hain parents mein jo mummy hoti unki vah bahut hi jyada strict hoti Thi To vah bacchi Apne Man ki baat apni apni Man ko bhi nahin Bata paati Thi nahin Bata paati Thi kyunki vah apni man se bahut darti thi To is baat Ko bhi usne kabhi kisi se share nahin kiya aur na hi kisi ko aaj tak pata chalne Diya Lekin pata nahin mohalle ki Kisi vyakti dwara is baat Ko uski mamma Tak mummy Tak pahuncha Diya Gaya mummy to pahuncha Diya Gaya aur uski Mummy Ko jab yah baat pata Chali ki koi ladka use pasand karta hai ya use pareshan karta hai coaching jaate hue to uski mummy ne uska Ghar Se nikalna hi band karva Diya jab bhi Koi vah Bahar jaati Hai To Kisi Na Kisi ke sath hi jayegi vah akele uski azadi chhin Gai thi vah akele kahin bhi Na Ja sakti Thi aur na hi use jaane Diya jata tha aur agar kisi ke sath bhi Jana hota tha to use bahut sare sawalon ka Samna bhi karna padta tha dikhne mein vah bahut khubsurat aur Sundar Thi बड़ी-बड़ी Aankhen aur uske ghunghrale hue Bal har Kisi Ko moh lete the vah bahut hi Sundar Thi but Lekin Kisi Anjan vyakti ke Karan uski Jo azadi Thi Jo ek ladki Ko Milani chahie the vah chhin gai FIR जैसे-जैसे vah Badi hoti gai uska Ghar se bahar nikalne ka man bahut jyada karne Laga lekin apni Mummy ki kathorta ke Karan vah kabhi Bahar hi nahin nikali FIR jab vah Apne college ke Dinon mein I tab usne thoda khud Ko mahsus Kiya thoda Azad Hui thoda matlab bahut thoda ki sirf school college ki sirf college hi jana hai aur kahin nahin Jana Hai Na doston ke Sath ghumna Hai Na unse jyada Milana hai na unke Ghar Jana Hai
Tu aise hi din bitate hue beet Gaye bahut 24 sal usne apni Puri padhaai complete kar li usne School padha usne graduation ki apni usne apni masters ki degree prapt nikali but Aaj bhi vah berojgar Hai yah ek ladki ke liye bahut hi jyada depressed feeling hoti hai ki ek 24 sal ki ladki jiske ek taraf rishte dekhne ke liye unke Mata pita ladke dekh Rahe Hain uski shaadi ke liye aur dusri taraf uske man mein ki man mein chal rahe hain Keval Sangharsh Keval Sangharsh vah lad rahi hai apne sapnon Se ki kab uske sapne pure honge ek ladki ke man mein bhi bahut sare sapne hote Hain jab vah padhe likh leti Hai To Main Aisa karungi Main Apne paise kamaungi Main Apne parents ko ghumaungi FIR aaungi Main bhi ghoomungi Apne upar paise kharch karungi but aajkal ki Sarkar ke kuchh niyamon ke Karan hi samajh mein Ham to Shayad vah fail ho chuki hai ki Shayad uski job lag jaaye
Lekin kyunki 24 sal ki hone ke Karan uske Man mein To Sangharsh chal rahe hain ki vah kaise ab kamyab Bane safalta prapt Karen lekin dusri or uske माता-पिता uske liye shaadi ke liye ladke bhi dekh rahe hain ab ek taraf Mata pita ki soch bhi sahi hai ki ek umra ke bad ladkiyon ko Vida kar dena hi uchit hota hai but Kya Main UN logon se sawal puchna chahti Hun ki Kya yah jaruri hai ki 24 25 sal ki ladkiyon ko ka Vivah karna jaruri hai kya unko safalta ki jarurat nahin Hoti Hai use Samaj se bahut sare tane Mil Rahe Hain ki tumne itna padhaai Kiya Hai tumne itna sab kuchh Kiya Hai fir bhi Tum berojgar Ghar per baithi rahti hun kuchh nahin karti ho unki baton ko Sun leti Hai Bina kuchh kahen Bina kuchh kahe
Kyunki vah majbur hai majbur hai apne halaton se apni kismat Se aur apne aap se ki usne itna kuchh padhne likhane ke bad bhi vah aaj tak berojgar ki shreni mein Hi a rahi hai
Kya ladkiyon ko sirf padha Diya Jana hi simit hai kya Sarkar sirf ladkiyon ko padhaanaa hi jaan rahi hai unhen rojgar dene mein unka Koi mahatva nahin Hai kya ladkiyan sirf padhne ke liye bus paida hui hai ki sirf vah pad hi jaati Hai unhen rojgar nahin diya ja raha hai is jamane mein Aaj bhi ladkiyan bahut Sangharsh kar rahi hai gharon se nikalne mein padhaai ke liye log padha bhi to rahe hain lekin kya sirf unko padha likha kar ek Sone ki gudiya Banakar acche se taiyar karke dusron ke gharon mein khana banane ke liye hi Jana Hai Kya unki aur koi self respect nahin hai kya unhen apni azadi jeene ka hak nahin hai kya aur shaadi ke bad bhi azadi dusron se mangni pade kya yah hamare maulik adhikaron mein Shamil Hai Main ine sab ke jawab Janna chahti hun aap logon se aap mujhe apni Rai bataiye ki kya Maine Jo kuchh bhi sawal puche Hain vah sahi hai ya galat hai agar main galat hun to bhi aap mujhe bataiye aur agar Main Sahi Hun To Mera Sath dijiy
Kya Aaj bhi samaj mein aisi sthiti hai ki Aaj bhi ladkiyon ko Apne sasural walon se permission leni padati hai apni azadi ke liye ki tumhen ghar ka pura kam karna padega aur FIR tum apne kam karo kya ladkiyon ki koi self respect nahin Hoti Hai I no ki Hai bade shahron mein nahin hota lekin jis society se main bhi laung Karti hun jis gaon mein Main rahti hun vahan per yah sab Aaj bhi chalta hai aaj bhi bahuon ko shaadi se pahle yah bolkar lekar aaya jata hai ki tum shaadi ke bad Keval kya pahnana chahte Hain Kya nahin pahan sakti yah decide bhi sasural wale hi karte Hain To aage ki kahani mein cal aapse kahati hun Aaj ke liye dhanyvad....