Be wise enough to caution yourself with the type of words you use against your spouse ,the words you speak will either put you over or hold you in bondage . Be wise enough not to listen to outside words ,be wise enough to stop anything you husband warns you against ,be wise enough to avoid single friends as a married person . Be wise enough to know when bad friends wants to destroy your marriage . Be wise enough to know that the most important thing a man can do for his wife is to love their mother ,be wise enough to know that you just have to take care of your wife and she will become beautiful again ,no woman is ugly you just have to invest in her . Be wise enough to know that your home is your pride so set it accordingly . Be wise enough to know that to fail to understand ones spouse is to fail to understand oneself .Be wise enough to know that a wrong marriage is next to hell. Be wise enough to know that marriage is life imprisonment ,you can't just go in and come out . Be wise enough to know that having the wrong partner in marriage will not only be a thorn to your flesh but a destroyer of your destiny . Be warned .... Be wise enough to know that when your marriage is falling apart the best thing to do is to pray . Do not get a third party involved in your marriage especially during the times of misunderstanding . Be it who ,you can request for an elder to caution your wife or husband but never you keen on bad advise .
BUT ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT, THE GREATEST OF ALL ART IS THE ART OF LIVING TOGETHER