The visitor, upon hearing Nan Zhubin speak, put down the glass and focused his attention.
He quickly got into the state.
Nan Zhubin didn't hold back and directly gave the conclusion first: "You are still attacking yourself."
He then explained: "In the second thing you talked about, you think you caused trouble for the teacher, believing that the current self is highly likely to be 'disliked' by the teacher — you even found many reasons for your teacher to 'dislike you.'"
"In the third thing you mentioned, you described yourself as an 'unfilial' person. Although you expressed some complaints about your parents, you also justified them, believing that they have it tough and genuinely care about you."
"This situation also appeared in our second consultation," Nan Zhubin recalled, "At that time, you had fear triggered by being deceived, but you were simultaneously criticizing yourself for being 'too gullible,' even faintly implying that you 'deserved to be deceived.'"
