In fact, when everyone reaches this point in life, they will have things they fear, and with every step, they fear the hurt they've received before.
Perhaps everything everyone has seen is different, but ultimately they all reach the place they are meant to be. No one will stay unchanged in place, waiting for you, and no one will care for you naively like before. The only person you can rely on in this lifetime is yourself. If you place all your hopes on others, in the end, you will face the most painful outcome. No one will care for you foolishly like before, and no one will give up everything for you, including life.