"Actually, when I said this sentence today, I didn't mean to blame you for being unfit parents. I myself wasn't a competent parent either, I once lost my temper with my son for two hours in a row, and I hurt his young heart. But I acknowledged my mistake and corrected it, and that period gave me deep reflections."
"Nai'er, it was Dad who made the mistake in this matter, but could you, standing from Dad's position, try to understand him? Dad truly neglected your mom lately, but I didn't mean it intentionally. You know there have been many family matters lately."